I don't totally agree with what he says, but I agree for the most part of what he says.
And not having the plantation around makes it a whole lot easier to deny what happened.A blog dedicated to the rational discussion of politics and current events.
Tuesday, May 27, 2025
Sunday, May 25, 2025
Yes, they do have weddings in concentration camps
I mentioned in my last post that getting married in a plantation would be the perfect form of revenge given marriage and family life was not allowed. Actually, this is a subject for debate, but I don't want to get into it.
I object to any comparison of plantations to concentration camps since I see a lot of ignorance even from historians in the US about this topic.
Number one and most importantly, the only people who wanted to see these destroyed were the people who committed the crimes. Everyone else is aware that the destruction of concentration camps will erase their memory. I used the example of Belzec. It was one of the operation Reinhard camps where between 430,000 and 500,000 Jews (I would say more but cannot prove it) are believed to have been murdered by the SS at Bełżec . It was the third-deadliest extermination camp, exceeded only by Treblinka and Auschwitz. Only seven members of the Sonderkommando Survived.
Not many people have heard about it because it was destroyed. But that is an aside.
The second reason is that like under slavery, Jews were discouraged from getting married in the camps. Marriage was an act of resistance:“They got married in the ghetto and gave birth there. The “Death Machine” didn’t break the main thing – the human spirit and the will to live. After all, they wouldn’t let them die, otherwise, it was the ultimate surrender”, – says Alexander Boroda, the President of the Federation of Jewish Communities of Russia.After the war, people found themselves in Displaced Persons camps, some of which were on the site of former concentration camps. They got married in those camps.
But to answer the question:
Historic military compound the Seventh Fort in Vilnius, Lithuania has become a popular site for weeding parties and children summer camps, but, according to Israeli press, a Nazi German concentration camp had once stood there.
Belgian new portal New Europe reports citing The Jerusalem Post that the 18-acre red-brick bunker complex built in 1880s was also the site of a concentration camp in 1941. The Israeli newspaper wrote that thousands of Jews were imprisoned, treated inhumanely, killed and buried at the Seventh Fort.
from https://bnn-news.com/weddings-in-vilnius-held-near-wwii-concentration-camp-148244
The weddings are not held on the area where the Holocaust victims are buried, which is only 2% of the camp area.
So, if you are going to use the concentration camp example, then the descendants of formerly enslaved people should be "jumping" at the chance to get married on a plantation since it was something denied to their ancestors.
And descendants of people killed in concentration camps show their defiance and love for life by doing exactly that.
Friday, May 23, 2025
Jumping the broom
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| James Catnach - The Marriage Act Displayed in Cuts and Verse (British Library) |
Parry writes that despite the racial animus which characterized the US South during the nineteenth century, poor white Southerners (many of whom were descendants of people who had irregular forms of matrimony in Britain) and enslaved African Americans had more cultural exchange than is commonly acknowledged.But the reason I bring it up is that one of the institutions which was prohibited to slaves was marriage and a stable family life. A lot of the criticism about Nottoway is that it was used for weddings, which was something prohibited to slaves. On the other hand, no one has mentioned if blacks were prohibited from celebrating their marriages there in recent times. I'm not going to get into a discussion of "jumping the broom" or the institution of marriage during slavery since it would take a lot more than a blog post.
On the other hand, what would be a better form of revenge than for black people to get married on a place where it was prohibited to their ancestors?
I see way too much boohooing and handwringing that "slavery was bad" without too much introspection on what has been lost to future generations. The concentration camps have been kept as memorials. The only people who wanted them destroyed were the people who committed the crimes to hide the evidence.
Have you ever heard of Belzec? No, it was destroyed to hide the evidence. If you are going to mention concentration camps--then you should mention that.
This place was up for sale not too long ago: why didn't people buy it to turn it into another Whitney Plantation where slavery is addressed honestly?
To be honest if reparations are going to happen, they probably won't monetary, or just focused on one race: they will only come from an honest and open discussion of race in America.
And destroying the places which are painful really isn't the answer.
Wednesday, May 21, 2025
Nottoway Plantation--Those who forget the past may repeat its mistakes
While blacks know about it, I thought I would try to find an unbiased account of this place. The US media is sharply divided on the issue with blacks being disgusted by the house being used for weddings. This is despite areas where the slaves were kept being present. Also, this plantation was a sugar plantation, which made far more money than cotton did.
I am one who believes in trying to stay historically accurate. I agree with this comment by Redacted on the Independent.co.uk website. Perhaps more deference should have been given to the slaves, but I didn't hear anyone who has commented about how happy they are to see the destruction of this plantation say that the current owners discriminated in anyway.
And it would be ironic if black people had weddings and visited the plantation, which they can't do for the time being.
Anyway, I tried to find some coverage about Nottoway in the French media and only found articles about it as a tourist destination.
So, maybe the joy is merited.
On the other hand, one of the youtube posts rejoicing in the destruction was followed by a very complimentary post about Nathan Bedford Forrest.
I'm with Michael Twitty, the person who wrote the screencapped article at the top of this page:
Coming to terms with what these plantations have meant is a process that takes time and generational commitment. Plantations and sites related to slavery have to have foot traffic and human and financial investment to preserve the evidence of African and African American labor, craft and resistance. Still, they shouldn’t exist as mere resorts.



